Days & Nights of Natalie

Tuesday, July 31, 2007

Pictures needed for Erica's Remembrance Video


I have been asked to make a remembrance video of Erica "Starr" Czerwinski. My only problem is that I do not have many pictures of Erica. (With all of the moving over the years I have lost most of my pictures.) If any of you have pictures of Erica that I use, I would really appreciate it. I can use any kind of picture, either faire or everyday pictures. It does not matter if they come by email, mail, or in person. Any pictures from the mail or in person will be scanned and returned to the owner(s). If you know anyone that might have pictures of her, please, send this to them with this web address. Thank you for your time in reading this.


Love Forever & Always,


Nat

Friday, July 27, 2007

my you tube videos

I have taken down all of the Chainmaille YouTube Videos. I am very sorry for trouble or inconvenience they have caused. The videos were made (only) from pictures that were borrowed from Lord Randolph's site, Goblin Nation, Myspace, and Hawkeye's blog (Just Kelly's homepage). I truly believed that the videos were harmless, since they were just pictures from public places put to music. However it seems that they caused some issues for at least two people. I am really truly sorry. I will never be able to explain how terrible I feel about any trouble, pain, or suffering they have caused.
I will not post any more videos up of anyone, without their okay in doing so. If you are okay (or not okay) with your pictures being on Youtube, please let me know. I also let me know what kind of pictures may be used. (May I use garb pictures or plain clothes? If Garb pictures or okay, what kind of Garb?) My Youtube account name is CelticGypsyNatalie, if you would like to check on which videos are or are not on there.
I am not even going to post the video made from My Wedding pictures...since my Usherettes wore chainmaille. I might make a video without them in it, so that family (and friends) can have a link to our wedding videos. (The real wedding videos that my father-in-law made will be put up on Youtube. They are just of the wedding, not the receptions.)
I have already made quite a few videos (none are posted anywhere). If you would a copy of the video made of you (ask to see if I already made one) then let me know.
I never meant to hurt anyone. I was so proud of my friends, that I wanted to show them the world. I am sorry for the trouble I caused.

Wednesday, July 25, 2007

Study: Your Friends Can Make You Fat

A groundbreaking new study says obesity is contagious, spreading through social networks. Friends, more than family or neighbors, are the ones propagating the epidemic.

By Mary Carmichael
Newsweek
Updated: 4:44 p.m. CT July 25, 2007



The list of reasons a person might pack on too many pounds is already plenty long: genes, hormone disorders, a couch-potato lifestyle, love of cheeseburgers. Thanks to a new study in the New England Journal of Medicine, you can add another culprit to the list: friends.

Obesity spreads through social networks, according to the study, so if your friends put on weight, you’re more likely to put on the pounds, too. Your family members or spouse can also influence you; as they get heavier, you’re more likely to gain along with them. But, your friends—even if they don’t live anywhere near you—have the most sway. A close friend’s weight gain can even be downright dangerous.

“If your close friend becomes obese in a given time interval, there’s triple the risk that you will follow suit,” says Nicholas Christakis, a coauthor of the study, which was published Wednesday and a professor of medical sociology at Harvard Medical School. “Before you know it you have an obesity epidemic, where we're all kind of gaining weight together, like a fashion spreading through society, rising in lockstep.”

The research—which Richard Suzman, director of the National Institute on Aging’s Behavioral and Social Research Program, calls “one of the most exciting studies in medical sociology that I have seen in decades”—focuses on 12,067 participants in the Framingham Heart Study, a multidecade government health-research project. Each participant was asked to name a list of friends and family members when he or she joined the program in 1971. Then the participants and their friends and family were tracked over the years.

When one person in the study became obese, his siblings’ risk of also becoming obese jumped by 40 percent, while his spouse’s risk jumped by 37 percent. More strikingly, if that person had been named as a “friend” by another participant, the second participant’s risk of becoming obese shot up by 57 percent. If the friends were of the same gender, the risk was even higher, at 71 percent. (The study found a man’s weight gain would have no significant effect on his female friend’s weight, and vice versa, but the study did not have many male-female friendships to examine.) If the friends were particularly close—judged in the study by the fact that they both named each other on their lists of loved ones—the risk that one’s weight would follow the others’ increased by a whopping 171 percent.


Even people who’d never met each other were affecting each other in a six-degrees-of-separation way. If your friend’s friend’s friend, or your friend’s sibling’s friend, gains weight, “that will have a subtle effect on you over the course of two to four years,” says James Fowler, an associate professor of political science at the University of California, San Diego, and the other coauthor of the study. “When we change our own lifestyle and become heavier or thinner, that has a ripple effect through the whole population.”

The study’s effects don’t just come down to the idea that thin people seek out other thin people as friends, while heavy people seek out other heavy people. In fact, what’s going on is much more interesting, according to the researchers: heavy and thin people are causing their friends to become more like them. The reason people have such a powerful effect on each other’s weight is hinted at by one of the study’s most intriguing findings, says Fowler: “Friends who are hundreds of miles away from you have as much of an effect as friends who are [geographically] close.”



Obesity, then, doesn’t spread among friends simply because they're hanging out together, “going out to eat at the same places or going to the bar or going to the park and running together,” he says. “It’s spreading through ideas about what appropriate behaviors are, or what an appropriate body image might be.” In other words, if you admire your friend and she happens to get heavier, you’ll be comfortable with the idea of getting heavier yourself. “If I see you gaining weight, and I respect you, and want to emulate you in other ways, that changes my ideas about what is an acceptable body size. I think, 'All my buddies are getting obese, so it's OK for me to be obese too',” says Christakis. “And even if you’re 1,000 miles away, or I only see you once a year, that’s enough to transmit the norm.”

The study suggests a new explanation for the obesity epidemic, says Matthew Gillman, director of the Obesity Prevention Program at Harvard Medical School. “Genes can certainly affect whether one individual is obese rather than the other, but they can’t really explain the obesity epidemic, because they haven’t really changed in the last 30 years,” he says. True, plenty of changes in American society have contributed to the epidemic: most obviously, an increase in fatty, carb-heavy processed foods and a decrease in built-in daily exercise. But social networks have changed, too. Compared to the years before the epidemic started, Americans also now have more ways to keep in contact with their loved ones, such as e-mail, instant-messaging and videoconferencing. The study suggests that the obesity norms could indeed be transmitted via those technologies; a friend 1,000 miles away can still send an e-mail bemoaning his recent weight gain.

There’s still a lot left to figure out about these new dynamics of obesity. One question the research brings up, but fails to completely answer, is where neighbors fit into the picture. They appear to have no influence: if your neighbor becomes obese, your risk of doing likewise doesn’t change. It’s unclear why neighbors aren’t playing a larger role, although Christakis notes that if you don’t particularly admire or even know your neighbors, you're not likely to base your ideas about body size on theirs.


The study also brings up several other questions: Why are same-sex friendships and relationships so much more influential over weight than male-female friendships are? Where does the ripple effect stop? Does the same dynamic apply to other behavior-related health problems, such as drinking, smoking and risky sexual behavior? It may be some time before researchers fully know the answers.

It’s not too early, however, for public-health officials to start thinking about the study’s implications. Over the last 25 years, obesity in the United States has doubled; 66 percent of Americans are overweight and 32 percent are on the next level, classified as obese, according to the National Center for Health Statistics. And measures to combat the problem aren’t bringing those numbers down. “We see no evidence that the obesity epidemic has peaked,” says Christakis. And it’s possible the epidemic won’t peak until weight-loss groups and health advocates start taking social ties into account. But in a way, that's good news, says Fowler: “The flip side of this is that thinness is contagious, too." If you really want to lose weight, he adds, maybe you should encourage some of your buddies to trim down as well.

URL: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/19961197/site/newsweek/

Tuesday, July 24, 2007

Belly dancing

Thursday, July 19, 2007

Harry Potter's last book is out at Midnight tonight!






my you tube videos (so far, still working on more)

Saturday, July 14, 2007

The Top Songs of My High School Years

Pop Songs of 1989

1. Chicago ~ Look Away
2. Bobby Brown ~ My Perogative
3. Poison ~ Every Rose Has Its Thorn
4. Paula Abdul ~ Straight Up
5. Paula Abdul ~ Cold Hearted
6. Richard Marx ~ Right Here Waiting
7. Bette Midler ~ Wind Beneath My Wings
8. Milli Vanilli ~ Girl You Know Its True
9. Will To Power ~ Baby, I Love Your Way (Freebird Medley)
10. Anita Baker ~ Giving You The Best That I Got
11. Janet Jackson ~ Miss You Much
12. Gloria Estefan ~ Don't Wanna Lose You
13. Debbie Gibson ~ Lost In Your Eyes
14. Boy Meets Girl ~ Waiting For A Star To Fall
15. Warrant ~ Heaven
16. Milli Vanilli ~ Girl I'm Gonna Miss You
17. Bobby Brown ~ On Our Own
18. Fine Young Cannibals ~ She Drives Me Crazy
19. Roxette ~ The Look
20. Phil Collins ~ Two Hearts


Pop Songs of 1990

1. Wilson Phillips ~ Hold On
2. Sinead O'Connor ~ Nothing Compares To You
3. Billy Idol ~ Cradle Of Love
4. Bel Biv Devoe ~ Poison
5. Madonna ~ Vogue
6. Mariah Carey ~ Vision Of Love
7. Phil Collins ~ Another Day In Paradise
8. Wilson Phillips ~ Release Me
9. Roxette ~ It Must Have Been Love
10. Janet Jackson ~ Escapade
11. Bel Biv Devoe ~ Do Me
12. Michael Bolton ~ How Am I Supposed To Live Without You
13. Technotronic ~ Pump Up The Jam
14. Paula Abdul ~ Opposites Attract
15. Bon Jovi ~ Blaze Of Glory
16. Heart ~ All I Wanna Do Is Make Love To You
17. Maxi Priest ~ Close To You
18. Alannah Myles ~ Black Velvet
19. En Vogue ~ Hold On
20. Linda Ronstadt & Aaron Neville ~ Don't Know Much


Pop Songs of 1991

1. Bryan Adams ~ (Everything I Do) I Do It For You
2. Paula Abdul ~ Rush Rush
3. C&C Music Factory ~ Gonna Make You Sweat
4. Color Me Badd ~ I Wanna Sex You Up
5. Extreme ~ More Than Words
6. Whitney Houston ~ All The Man That I Need
7. Janet Jackson ~ Love Will Never Do (Without You)
8. Hi-Five ~ I Like The Way (The Kissing Game)
9. Surface ~ The First Time
10. Amy Grant ~ Baby Baby
11. Boyz II Men ~ Motown Philly
12. Stevie B ~ Because I Love You (The Postman Song)
13. Mariah Carey ~ Someday
14. Damn Yankees ~ High Enough
15. Bette Midler ~ From A Distance
16. EMF ~ Unbelievable
17. Jesus Jones ~ Right Here Right Now
18. Color Me Badd ~ I Adore Mi Amor
19. Timmy T ~ One More Try
20. Marky Mark and The Funky Bunch ~ Good Vibrations


Pop Songs of 1992

1. Sir Mix A-lot ~ Baby Got Back
2. Boyz II Men ~ End Of The Road
3. Eric Clapton ~ Tears In Heaven
4. Vanessa Williams ~ Save The Best For Last
5. TLC ~ Baby Baby Baby
6. Kris Kross ~ Jump
7. En Vogue ~ My Lovin' (You're Never Gonna Get It)
8. Red Hot Chili Peppers ~ Under The Bridge
9. Color Me Badd ~ All 4 Love
10. Billy Ray Cyrus ~ Achy Breaky Heart
11. Shanice ~ I Love Your Smile
12. Mr. Big ~ To Be With You
13. Right Said Fred ~I'm Too Sexy
14. Michael Jackson ~ Black Or White
15. Jon Secada ~ Just Another Day
16. Michael Jackson ~ Remember The Time
17. Guns N' Roses ~ November Rain
18. Tom Cochrane ~ Life Is A Highway
19. Mariah Carey ~ I'll Be There
20. CeCe Peniston ~ Finally


Pop Songs of 1993

1. Whitney Houston ~ I Will Always Love You
2. Mariah Carey ~ Dreamlover
3. UB40 ~ Can't Help Falling In Love
4. Janet Jackson ~ That's The Way Love Goes
5. Silk ~ Freak
6. SWV ~ Weak
7. Dr. Dre ~ Nuthin' But A "G" Thang
8. Tag Team ~ Whoomp! (There It Is)
9. Wreckx-N-Effect ~ Rump Shaker
10. Duice ~ Dazzey Duks
11. Shai ~ If I Ever Fall In Love
12. Boyz II Men ~ In The Still Of The Nite
13. Jade ~ Don't Walk Away
14. H-Town ~ Knockin' Da Boots
15. Jodeci ~ Lately
16. Snow ~ Informer
17. Robin S. ~ Show Me Love
18. Peabo Bryson & Regina Belle ~ A Whole New World
19. SWV ~ I'm So Into You
20. Janet Jackson ~ If


Pop Songs of 1994

1. Celine Dion ~ The Power Of Love
2. Mariah Carey ~ Hero
3. Boyz II Men ~ I'll Make Love To You
4. Bryan Adams, Rod Stewart & Sting ~ All For Love
5. All 4 One ~ I Swear
6. Lisa Loeb & Nine Stories ~ Stay (I Missed You)
7. Toni Braxton ~ Breathe Again
8. Ace Of Base ~ The Sign
9. Ace Of Base ~ All That She Wants
10. Ace Of Base ~ Don't Turn Around
11. R. Kelly ~ Bump N' Grind
12. Janet Jackson ~ Again
13. Madonna ~ I'll Remember
14. Prince ~ The Most Beautiful Girl In The World
15. John Mellencamp & Me'shell Ndegeocello ~ Wild Night
16. Mariah Carey ~ Without You / Never Forget You
17. Toni Braxton ~ You Mean The World To Me
18. Elton John ~ Can You Feel The Love Tonight
19. Salt-N-Pepa ~ Whatta Man
20. Coolio ~ Fantastic Voyage

Ded Bob for President!


The Top 10 Reasons To Vote For Ded Bob


10. He will appoint an all female cabinet, including the new "Secretary of Yumminess"
9. You can call him "President Bonehead" to his face
8. He won't have a fascist "Dick" as his Vice President
7. He's not a sexually-repressed, corporate-brown-nosing, wrap-your-greed-in-the-flag Republican.
6. He comes pre-assassinated.
5. This time, the candidate with the most votes gets to be president.
4. He will tell no Whoppers of Mass Distraction.
3. Even empty headed, he's more intelligent than George W.
2. He will levy a 99% tax on corporate CEO's and give the money to Teachers and Nurses.

...and the number one reason to vote for Ded Bob


1. Cuz you been BOBMOTIZED!


bumper stickers















Wednesday, July 11, 2007

my favorite is the second one...she is more relaxed

Sunday, July 08, 2007

Skid Row - Breakin' Down

From the movie "The Prophecy".

Wednesday, July 04, 2007

Happy Fourth of July!






middle name (it seems I like to drink...alot)

A : You like to drink
L : Unbelievably great in bed.
E : Great in bed.
X : You never let people tell you what to do.
A : You like to drink
N : You like to drink.
D : one in a million.
R : Easy to fall in love with
A : You like to drink



A : You like to drink
B : You like people.
C : You are really silly.
D : one in a million.
E : Great in bed.
F : You are dead sexy.
G : You never let people tell you what to do.
H : You are Quirky.
I : Great in bed.
J : People Adore you
K : You're wild and crazy.
L : Unbelievably great in bed.
M : best kisser ever.
N : You like to drink.
O: awesome kisser.
P : You are popular with all types of people.
Q : You are a hypocrite.
R : Easy to fall in love with
S : Fuckin Crazy
T : You're loyal to those you love.
U : You really like to chill.
V : You are not judgemental.
W : You are very broad minded.
X : You never let people tell you what to do.
Y : best boy/girl friend any one can ask for.
Z : Always ready.

Monday, July 02, 2007

Elle trying to sing her ABCs